At school, we are taught to read and write, teach stories and a foreign language, they are taught even logarithms and something else that no one then remembers. But life is almost not taught, and even more so they are not taught to be parents. Probably, according to the Ministry of Education, the upbringing of children should be in genes. Previously, when people lived together with large families, they had the opportunity to observe the processes of education. But now it is not so simple, and the requirements for raising children have changed a lot, how the society as a whole has changed.
Being a good parent is a whole science. It is good that now there is an opportunity to freely find information on any topic regarding raising children, you can read, you can watch learning films. The main thing is not to turn a blind eye to emerging problems, but to look for answers to them. Because the problems in relations with children themselves do not disappear, but have the properties to accumulate. If a three -year -old baby has stopped obeying you, then wait for him to settle down.
It would be very good to know in advance about all those development crises that you will have to go along with your offspring. For example, you need to prepare for adolescence in advance. You need to have contact with the child, have confidence in him, to be a friend, so that in a difficult transitional period a son or daughter can turn to you and know that they will find support and understanding from you.
What includes raising children?
1. The education of a child is the constant activity of parents in order to form certain life values and beliefs. Therefore, for starters, decide for yourself that you want to instill in the baby, what kind of character you want to see, what speech to hear from him, which system to invest.
2. The education process should be constant! Children develop their character and views constantly, regardless of whether you bring them up at the moment or not. Therefore, the parent must always keep under the control of the child in order to let him be fed only by what needs.
3. Education of children should be built on a combination of love and discipline. Bias in any of the parties – deplorable. Who will like it when he is only disciplined, ordered, taught? And what will happen if you turn a blind eye to all leprosy and conscious disobedience?
A good character is obtained in those children who were raised with love, care and constant discipline.
4. The entire atmosphere of the family should correspond to what you want to invest in a crumb. It is desirable that everyone in the family has similar views. It is difficult to explain the baby that you can not say “bad” words if dad allows himself to sometimes faded. It will be difficult for the baby to decide on a value system if mom instes Christian values, and dad – atheistic.
This is just some of the principles of raising children. We will talk more about the features of education in each age period in the following articles. In the meantime, do not forget that raising children is too important to put it off for later.